Sunday, November 25, 2018

"No, Mum, I'm Not a Millennial" (an interview with Lara Liz about her move to a new blog)

I know I said I was taking a blogging hiatus in November, but this post was scheduled aaages ago, so really it's like I stepped into a time machine to bring you this extra special blog post. You're reading words written by Kate-from-the-past!

It's been over two years since I last interviewed Lara Liz on my blog, but it seems like yesterday! Lara is a smart, witty, thoughtful, warm, and welcoming blogger and friend. It's always a blast getting to feature her here on "The Magic Violinist" and I hope you'll check out her own blog, too! You may recognize Lara from "Another Teen Reader," where she wrote about books, blogging, and everything in between. Today we're talking about a variety of topics, including her move to a new blog, which is titled "No, Mum, I'm Not a Millennial." Enjoy!






Lara Liz is a teenage blogger, writer and procrastinator who is passionate about education, fascinated by her generational identity, and proudly disabled. She’s a recovering book blogger who tweets @otherteenreader, blogs at the soon-to-be-launched No, Mum, I’m Not A Millennial … and yes. She was named after Lara Croft.










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1. Welcome back to the blog, Lara! Changing things up in regards to our online presence is something with which I think all of us bloggers can identify. What prompted the move from one blog to another?
It was kind of bittersweet realisation for me, actually. I'd just finished exams (insert Kate rolling her eyes because I've gone on about these exams approximately ten billion times) and I was starting to realise that, despite the fact I now had the time to read, I didn't really want to. After a few existential crises, I started to realise it was partly because I felt pressure to create some kind of post out of everything I read, and because I'd been posting so little as exams got serious, I wasn't really in the habit of doing that anymore.

I'd been wanting to branch out into other topics and a more typically journalistic style for a while, and I realised that if I wanted to keep loving reading in the way I had since I was a kid, I needed to take that leap. No, Mum, I'm Not A Millennial was a new, shiny thing that I was excited about, and frankly I hadn't been excited about blogging in that way for a really long time.

Also, I got to make a new blog design. I mean, what's not to love?

2. It should be noted that I was not, in fact, rolling my eyes at the mention of exams, but I did giggle at that parenthetical. ;) What theme will your posts focus on?

I'm rather pretentiously calling No, Mum "an account of Generation Z life", so I'll mostly be focusing on the things that I hope everyone in my generation can relate to: school, trying to understand how exactly we're supposed to grow up in a digital age, and the desire to make the world a better place. Posts about blogging were also really popular on Another Teen Reader, so I'll be writing a lot of those too.

3. What are you most excited about with your blog?

Reaching a new audience! As much as I adore the book bloggersphere and everything it's done for me, it does have a tendency to be quite insular: you don't interact with many people who don't write a blog themselves. I'm hoping that because No, Mum deals with topics everyone can relate to - even adults were teenagers at one point or another - I'll get to meet an even larger group of people.

4. Who are some of your favorite bloggers right now?
I'll be honest, Kate, I'm having to work quite hard not to insert a British "u" into the word favourite in the question right now. Hopefully you won't object to me using one or two of them in my answer.

[Ha! No objections here.]
One of the best (and scariest) things I've discovered while developing No, Mum is that I need to find a whole new circle of blogs to read: one that doesn't just deal in books and reading. I mean, Paper Fury and Pages Unbound will always be in my Bloglovin' feed, but lately I've also been loving the work of the team behind Eco Warrior Princess, which is a blog focusing on environmental activism and truly sustainable living. Their pieces are really erudite but still easy to read and identify with - I think the phrase "peak late-stage capitalism" was used in the last post I read, which pretty much says it all. I aspire to create a similar tone at No, Mum, I'm Not A Millennial.

And of course, I'm a religious Magic Violinist reader, but that goes without saying. :-)

[*insert blushing/smiling emoji here*]

5. I know diversity is an important issue to you, so do you have any books, blogs, or other forms of media you can recommend that are written by diverse authors?

I'm probably going to go on a bit of a rant about books in a few questions' time, so I'm going to introduce you to something a bit artistically ... different. She's not a writer as far as I know, but Ali Stroker is always the first person that comes to mind when I think about the fight that many minority groups - especially people with disabilities - have to go through to be seen on an artistic level.

Here she is performing on the Glee Project in 2012:




Ali was the first person to perform on Broadway in a wheelchair. Ever. And at the time I'm writing this, I'm pretty sure no-one in a wheelchair has ever performed on the West End. Disability representation has a long way to go across the arts, from blogging to writing to speed sculpture, but I think musical theatre is one of the most stark illustrations of just how undiverse the world can be sometimes.

6. The title of your blog is so catchy and fascinating! How did you come up with it and what does it mean to you?

Actually, it started while I was sat on a gym mat trying to avoid doing anything in P.E. I was talking to my friend Briony about the potential of our generation (or whether we are actually doomed) and she kept saying "Gen Z".

Gen Z? What the heck is that?

Well, I asked, and was astounded to learn that, contrary to what my family and the internet had always told me, I was not one of those darn millennials. And here's the really cool thing: if you were born after about 1995, neither are you.

It really shook me because I started to understand why I'd never quite identified with the humour and experiences of my generation - the generation I was trying to identify with wasn't actually mine to begin with. What made me laugh, though, was the prospect of trying to explain this minor epiphany to the people around me. Briony just about got it, but my Mum?

And so a blog name was born.

7. Your bio mentions that you're passionate about education. Can you expand on that? What specifically interests you?

A few years ago, I read Malala Yousafzai's autobiography, and it hit me really, really hard. I'd always loved school: I was that nerdy kid who was constantly buried in a book, and up until the age of about eleven, people actually called me Larapedia. I knew I was lucky to like school, and to be good at it, but it had never occurred to me that I was lucky to be there. It had never occurred to me that, because I was white and living in a first world country with a reasonable education system with reasonably well-off parents, I had more opportunities than most people do.

And sure, there's inequality everywhere in the world, and most of it needs tackling, but education inequality is one of the most unfair things to me because schooling is the basis of all of our lives. If a person doesn't get a fair education when they're young, they have less of a chance of getting a good job, of earning money, and sending their children somewhere they can be well educated. Then those children have less of a chance ... and I think you know what I'm getting at.

Education is the best weapon humanity has to break the cycle of inequality. When we educate girls in countries with poor gender rights histories, they have the tools to fight for a seat at the table. When we properly educate and inspire low-income teens in the inner city, they have a way out from the gang violence that threatens their lives. When we invest in the necessary tools to educate disabled children at the same level as their peers, we create a generation that is able to campaign for better access in the whole of society.

That's why I'm passionate about education.

8. And on that passionate note, let's do some top threes! What are your top three favorite books?

Oh, Kate, you know this is hard. I have so many books that I love and would like to shove in the hands of as many people as possible. But I guess there's not much point me telling you how amazing the Harry Potter series is, so here are three books that I love to pieces and you might not have heard of.

1) The First Third by Will Kostakis, which is almost everything I've ever personally wanted in disability representation from the whole of young adult literature. One of its main characters has the same disability as me, and the way it is described in the first few pages of the novel resonated with me on such a personal level that I cried. It's also hilarious, massively Australian, and packed full of amazing descriptions of food, so what's not to love?

2) Waking In Time by Angie Stanton is amazing for three reasons. Firstly, it has one of the best first lines I've read in a really long time, secondly the time travel is amazing (I mean, university in the 50s? Sign me the hell up.) and thirdly ... the love interest is really cute. Don't shame me for that.

3) The Name of the Star by Maureen Johnson will always have a special place in my heart because I quite literally found it by pulling random books off the library shelves until I found something that looked morbid enough. And boy, does this deliver. It's not overly gory, so I don't have any qualms about recommending it to people I don't know, but it is a ghostly Jack the Ripper, so exercise caution if you must. What makes it great for me, though, isn't the mystery or the fear factor. It's the characters and the setting, which meld together to create an amazing London-infused cocktail that kept me glued to the page.

Oops. That was a long answer. Sorry, Kate.

9. Top three favorite musical theatre soundtracks?

Right this moment? Honestly, I'm a very basic musical theatre fan, so these won't come as any surprise.

1) Hamilton: An American Musical, words and music by Lin-Manuel Miranda (yes, I can rap the entire thing)

2) Dear Evan Hansen, words and music by Benj Pasek and Justin Paul (yes, I flew across the Atlantic to see this last year, and yes, I sobbed through it)

3) Everybody's Talking About Jamie, words by Tom MacRae and music by Dan Gillespie Sells (this is the one you might not have heard of, so I'm going to call it a cross between Bad Education and RuPaul's drag race)

[You would be correct in that I haven't ever heard of that musical, but know that I'm pulling it up on Spotify as we speak!]

10. Top three foods?

1) Sushi (especially when delivered to me via conveyor belt) [Agreed.]
2) Chocolate fondant
3) Any sort of ice cream with cookies or brownie pieces in it
*drools*


Thank you so much again for visiting the blog, Lara! I encourage all of you lovely, loyal readers to check out "No, Mum, I'm Not a Millennial" and drop a comment to Lara. She's a writer you won't want to miss.

And in this comment section, let me know some of your top threes! Books, musical theatre soundtracks, foods, movies, bloggers, you name it.

Thursday, November 1, 2018

Taking a Hiatus Because NaNoWriMo is Intense

I, like many other bloggers and writers, am once again taking on the daunting, difficult, demanding challenge called NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month).


Why would I attempt to write 50,000 words during one of the busiest months of the year? Because I'm an overachiever like that. For some reason, thousands of writers around the world find it invigorating to take on the stress and insanity of squeezing 1,667 words a day between all of the other obligations we have.


This month, not only am I doing NaNoWriMo, but I'm also:

-Acting as one of the Municipal Liaisons for my NaNoWriMo regions (seriously, I just can't get enough of it)
-Going to rehearsals four times a week for "Charlotte's Web" (to be performed in December)
-Taking voice lessons and rehearsing for a Christmas cabaret with all of the other vocal students
-Going on two out-of-state trips
-Preparing for Christmas
-Applying to scholarships for college
-Continuing all of my other writing commitments (monthly posts for "The Write Practice," book blurbs for my local library newsletter, etc.)
-I should probably try to do dishes and get dressed and stuff each day? Maybe?
-Something else I'm probably forgetting

So with all that in mind, I'm taking a blogging hiatus until December, because I definitely don't have time to write any other blog posts other than this one. Already, it'll be a miracle if I'm able to get to this stage by the end of the month:


Then again, I'm an extremely competitive person by nature, so I'm determined to finish those 50,000 words, no matter the cost. I've already got great strategies in mind for how to conquer this.


And as I write this post, my NaNo novel is calling to me. I'm at 1,100 words right now, so let's see if I can crank out another 600 before I have to leave for vocal rehearsal. I'll be back in December!

I know it's only day 1, but how's your NaNoWriMo novel going? Are you pumped about the upcoming month or already dreading the next 29 days? Leave a comment!

Wednesday, October 24, 2018

Yet Another Writing Tag That I Stole

Cait from "Paper Fury" gave permission for other bloggers to steal these questions, seeing as they were originally stolen from @rebeccarmix. We bloggers are nothing if not thieves. 

Me as a sneaky, sneaky thief.
What are your favorite kinds of scenes to write? Why?

-Witty dialogue:

I love writing dialogue, so much so, I really should be writing way more screenplays than I do. This can be my downfall, though, because come editing time, I have to deal with three straight pages of dialogue where my characters are floating around in space. I probably knew where they were and what they were doing when I wrote the scene, but heck if I know that now.

-Characters sitting around, doing absolutely nothing except being themselves:

Another fun, but potentially problematic scene. I jump at any chance I get for characters to just sit around and let their personalities shine through as they talk about some TV show or bicker with each other. This usually means I end up cutting 10% of the book later because these scenes do nothing to move the plot forward.

-Super dramatic, "all is lost" situations:

Now these are fun and helpful, especially in my high-stakes fantasy novels. I love a little drama now and then, and the darker it is, the better. These are the scenes I can imagine as movie moments.

-Melodramatic prose:


Again, 90% of this stuff gets edited out later, but it's still fun to write, because when I get going, I really get going. I find this great flow that allows me to write a ton of words, which is what I need, during a first draft.

We’re all our own worst critics—so, what about your writing are you genuinely proud of? Don’t hold back.

-Dialogue:

Again, it's something I love to write, and it's something I think I'm actually good at. This is probably the one and only aspect of my writing I've never had to work at getting better, because it came so naturally. Everything else is still kind of a mess, but I love my dialogue. My characters always have distinct voices and talk like real people would. I think part of why it's good is not only because I read a lot, but also because I watch a lot of TV.

-Writing characters I'd want to hang out with in real life:

I have to like my characters to feel invested in them, and that usually means I end up writing characters I wish I could be friends with. These are my favorite people to read about in other books, so I'm hoping that's a good sign about mine.

-The tight bond of friendship between characters:


I love gangs of friends who stick together to either save the world, put on a school play, carry out some heist, or any other grand plan. It's a fun dynamic to play with, because those kinds of friends would do anything for each other, but they also tease the others incessantly. My characters always have close friends who make regular appearances throughout the book and have great chemistry with each other.

What do you love about writing? What excites you? What makes all of this nightmare struggle worth it?

-Getting ideas for new projects:


The "ooh, shiny!" moment is arguably the most exciting stage of any project. It's brand new, so you aren't sick of it yet, and it's full of possibilities, so you aren't stuck yet. Getting bored with the project or not knowing what to do with it will come later, but the initial idea is always tons of fun to play with.

-Finishing a project:

There's nothing more satisfying than typing the final words of a first draft. It's a weird, bittersweet feeling, but after weeks of pushing through the tricky middle sections, it's so rewarding to finally get it done.

-Creating Pinterest boards/playlists:

This usually goes along with the brand new idea for a novel. One way I like to flesh out the tone of the story is to create a soundtrack for it and start messing around on Pinterest. It may not help with plotting much, but it keeps me excited.

-Getting feedback from critique partners that I made them laugh/squee/cry:

I love fangirling about other people's projects, so having someone fangirl over mine is beyond cool. I may not have a YA novel out in the world yet, but the few people who have read my writing and gushed about me make me feel like a real author.

What’s something you’re not as strong in that you’d like to improve?

-Fight scenes:

Dear God, how does any writer survive writing a fight scene??? If you actually enjoy them, please, tell me your ways. Describing any kind of scuffle for more than a paragraph has me wanting to rip my own limbs off, and yet, I have to do it because that's what happens in a high-stakes fantasy novel. They're just so boring, even though they're supposed to be exciting.

-Worldbuilding:

I like the idea of worldbuilding, but actually creating new worlds is really, really hard. Who can keep track of those many rules?? Not me, that's for sure. I'm already confused enough about the details of certain things in my contemporary novels. But I love magic and mythical creatures and paranormal stuff, so worldbuilding is a must.

-Plots where things actually HAPPEN:


This is usually my downfall in contemporary novels. I'm too eager to let my characters just talk to each other and not really do anything, even though I'm supposed to be raising the stakes and escalating the tension. Fantasy is a little easier for me to make "exciting," in some ways, because I can have a lot more magic and bloodshed.

-Grounding my characters in a clear setting:

This kind of goes along with worldbuilding. Since I love dialogue so much, I tend to neglect physical descriptions of things, including the setting. It'll maybe get a sentence or two, but that's about it. Oops.

We talk a lot about “big” writing dreams (movies! shows! bestseller list!) but do you have a smaller, quieter dream for you and your work? What is it?

-Someone creating fan-fiction or fanart from one of my novels:


Again, someone fangirling over my work is the best.

-Authors I love reading my books and/or talking about them:

I would flip if Becky Albertalli or Rainbow Rowell or Marissa Meyer tweeted about my book or did a blurb for one (or J.K. Rowling, but that's a bit lofty of a dream).

-Seeing my book on display at a bookstore/library:

Enough said.

-Being a part of book conferences/event and meeting some of my favorite authors:

I love going to author panels, signings, classes, etc., so getting to be a part of one with other writers I respect? That would be amazing. Even if a little public speaking was involved, I could get past that to sit at a table with my favorite authors.

Are there things that pop up in your writing over and over again whether you like it or not? What are they?

-References to whatever current TV show or musical I'm obsessed with at that moment:

I can always tell around what time I wrote a certain scene because the characters will bingewatch "Sherlock" and I can go, "Ah, yes, that was a 2014 novel." It's kind of fun to find these when I go back to older projects. It's like a mini time capsule.

-Characters who are such close friends, all of my critique partners assume they're actually harboring secret crushes for the other, when in fact, they are not:


This happens more often than you'd think. I can repeat the "they're just friends" mantra until I'm blue in the face, but my entire critique group will stare back at me with amused smiles and say, "no they're not," despite the fact that I'm the author of the story.

-Certain names I use and reuse throughout different books without realizing it:

I have multiple characters named Izzy, Charlie, and Liam, off the top of my head, most from abandoned projects. I'm not sure how it happens, but it does.

What are some tropes that you unapologetically adore writing? What are ones you never write because you can’t stand them?

Tropes I love:

-Slow burn romances
-Friends-to-lovers
-Hate-to-love
-Apparently just romances of all kinds
-The Strong Female Character TM (so long as she has flaws and isn't emotionless)
-Dysfunctional families
-The protagonist sacrificing themselves at the climax of the book
-Villains with whom you can empathize


Tropes I hate:

-Love triangles (I write "fake" love triangles instead: two characters like each other, but one is convinced that someone else is actually the recipient of the crush)
-Tough guys with no feelings
-Prologues
-Love at first sight
-"I let out a breath I didn't realize I was holding."
-The heroine doesn't realize her own beauty

If you could hop in a time machine and give baby-writer you one piece of advice, what would it be?

Honestly, I feel like I'm still waiting for grown-up-writer-me to come give baby-writer-me advice. But I guess the advice I probably needed to hear a little earlier was that projects aren't birthed magically perfect. They take a ton of time and lots of editing. I didn't realize how much of writing was rewriting until the past few years.


What’s the last book/last books you read that made you go "HOLY SHIT that’s some good writing!!"?

-Tell the Wolves I'm Home by Carol Rifka Brunt
-The Miseducation of Cameron Post by Emily M. Danforth
-A Thousand Perfect Notes by C.G. Drews
-Long Way Down by Jason Reynolds
-Far From the Tree by Robin Benway

Do you have a book out? A book you’re working on? Tell me about it!

In typical Kate fashion, I am working on entirely too many projects at once, so I'll give you little snapshots into each of them.

Currently plotting:

-A fairytale comedy based on a Pinterest prompt I saw a while ago. A woman promises two witches separately her firstborn, so the witches share joint custody and go from loathing each other and the different parenting styles to eventually falling in love. One witch is your typical Glinda "good witch" while the other is a "wicked witch" (both with a twist, obviously).

-This one is also based on a prompt I saw (maybe on Twitter?). "Mamma Mia," except a young daughter learns her mom sold her soul to one of three demon lords and needs to find out which one she has to kill to get it back. I'm still trying to decide if I want to make this a full on lighthearted comedy, or something darker and more sarcastic.

-Captain Darling. My NaNoWriMo novel about Mrs. Darling following her children into Neverland and descending into villainy as she becomes the terrible Captain Hook.

Currently writing:

-Captain Zahira and Her Wayward Crew. I say I'm writing this, but really, it's been sitting unfinished in my documents for months. I'll go back to it eventually, but I've got too many projects to edit at the moment to continue with this one. This was, yet again, based on a prompt I saw. A pirate captain is cursed to die within the year unless she gives her heart freely to another, but instead of searching for romance, she decides to spend her last year gallivanting with her ragtag crew, who all try to secretly set her up with different people along the way.

Currently rewriting:

-'Til the Last Star Dies (probably to be renamed Angel of the Underworld). An immortal witch falls in love with a mortal witch hunter. It has everything: revenge, a magical emerald that has the power to unleash an undead army, friends turned evil, witches and demons, morally gray characters, and more.

-Ms. Holmes. A completely genderbent, steampunk Sherlock Holmes story with time travel. I wrote it when I was fourteen, so it's a mess, hence why I've been procrastinating the rewrite. But I still think it has a solid basic structure of what it needs to be, so I just need to figure out how to fix the plot.

-All the World's Afraid (which is a terrible title that doesn't apply to the story anymore because I reworked the plot). I finished the first draft last week and now I'm going at it with a red pen. The two teen girls playing Cosette and Eponine in their school musical fall in love over the course of the production, but both are convinced that the other could never like them back for various reasons. Lots of misunderstandings occur throughout the book, as well as a touch of paranormal happenings since the actress playing Cosette is convinced the actress playing Eponine accidentally cursed their theater by saying "Macbeth" during a rehearsal. It is yet to be determined whether that is true or not.



Currently querying:

-Beneath the Moon and Stars. My YA contemporary romance between an aspiring musician living in a poor, abusive household and an aspiring painter living in a rich household with his severely dysfunctional family. It's a simple story, but it still has my heart, even though I'm pretty sure I have to give up querying it for now since I'm at thirty rejections now. Maybe it'll find a home sometime in the future.

Tag, you're it! Continue the trail of stolen tags by answering the questions on your own blog or in the comments. What are some of your favorite tropes? What keeps showing up in your writing, whether you like it or not?

Tuesday, October 16, 2018

The Furry Friend Tag (Because You Need More Pictures of Scout in Your Life)


I was tagged ages ago to do this by Engie at "Musings From Neville's Navel," but, me being me, I'm only getting around to doing it now. I have hundreds of cute pictures of Scout and nowhere to put them, so this is the perfect excuse to spam all of you with my dog's adorable face. You're welcome.

        

What is your pet’s name?


Scout! She was given the name Kara originally, but she is not a Kara in the slightest. My mom came up with her name and decided to name her after Scout from To Kill a Mockingbird, because we're nerds like that. It totally fits her, too, because she's feisty and stubborn.

Scout does NOT like snow.
What kind of pet is it and what breed?

Gee, think someone needed a haircut?
She's a shih-chon, which is half shih tzu and half bichon. Shih tzus were originally bred as royal foot warmers to the emperor and bichons were bred to be sailor's companions, so Scout is all about being right next to her people, no matter what we're doing. She follows us around everywhere.

She also will lay on any of our possessions, making it impossible to get work done. Here she is on top of at least three notebooks.
And cuddling with one of my old stuffed animals.
How long have you had your pet?

My nine-year-old self with my new puppy.

It'll be nine years, in just a few weeks, which is crazy to think about. I don't really remember a time when we didn't have Scout. I mean, I do have memories before then, but they don't seem quite right because Scout isn't in them.

How did you get your pet?


Heh. Funny story . . . I was the only one in my family who really, really wanted a dog, but of course, I was allergic. My mom and I both have terrible allergies when it comes to cats, so cats were always a no go, but dogs were a bit milder. When I was younger, my parents would trade off with my brother and me to have parent-kid dates, so when it was my turn to pick what we'd do, a lot of the time I picked going to this puppy store in town, because it was the only one that let patrons play with the puppies, even if they weren't considering buying a dog.

Best store policy ever.

Eventually, Scout was the puppy I picked to play with, and she was the sweetest thing. She was tinier than all the other puppies and just wanted to sit in our laps. We fell in love with her instantly, and when we left the store, she cried as she watched us go. Scout became the only topic of conversation for a while, because I couldn't stop thinking about her and fantasizing about taking her home with us. We decided to bring my dad and my brother back the next day to visit her, my mom secretly hoping that my dad would say he didn't see what we saw and there was no way we should buy a dog. But, because Scout is Scout, she won all of our hearts. Even my younger brother, who at the time was terrified of dogs, was smitten with her.


We decided to go home and think about it, and I had a mini meltdown that night because I was so scared someone else was going to buy her first. My parents called the store the next day to let them know we were coming to get her, and it was just in time, too. As we were walking in the store, there was another family by her crate, as if they were considering taking her home.

Curled up in my lap.
For the first several weeks we had her, all she wanted to do was curl up in our laps, no matter what we were doing. When somebody left the room and came back, her tail would wag like crazy and she'd run over to them on her teeny tiny legs. I'm pretty sure she was nervous we were going to leave her again, since the first time we left at the store she whimpered pathetically. But some of my earliest memories with her is having her curled into a little ball in my lap while I wrote at the computer for my first year of NaNoWriMo.

So yeah, we didn't plan to get a dog. It just kind of happened. We joke that Scout is like a wizard's wand: we didn't choose her, she chose us.

For some reason she can't stand our Christmas stockings. We have to hide them from her every year, or else she'll eat them.
How old is your pet?

Eating her birthday "cake."
She just turned nine! We celebrate each of her birthdays like we would with one of ours. She gets presents, a cake, a nice long walk, the whole nine yards.

Out for a bike ride!
What is your favorite memory with your pet?

Attempting to lick my face.
How can I choose? I don't think I have very specific moments in time where I remember doing something with Scout. She's always just been a constant in my life. One of the things I love about her is she can instantly sense when something is wrong. If I'm upset or stressed, she's the first one there to investigate why I'm sad. She also loves to lick our tears, which always makes me laugh, so she always makes me feel better.

She was fascinated by my homecoming makeup.
And, as much as she doesn't cooperate, it's tons of fun trying to get cute selfies with her. I have so many selfies of us.



What are some quirky things about your pet’s personality?

Still not sure why I found her sitting like this . . .
Oh, where to begin . . .


Scout is nothing if not quirky. And manipulative. And insanely clever.

One of the weirdest things she's done is somehow turned into one of Pavlov's dogs. We have no idea how this habit started, but anytime someone in my family turns the TV on, Scout leaps up from wherever she's lying and marches in front of us to demand a treat. She could be dead asleep two rooms over, but she'll still hear the click of the TV being turned on, and she'll race over to beg for a treat, usually by climbing on top of the coffee table. She won't stop crying until we've given her one, then we can watch our show in peace.

On top of the coffee table.
She also loves to lay in laundry. This often prevents us from ever folding our laundry.

In the laundry . . .
Bundled up in a blanket . . .
And curled up on top of our Santa hats.
And when she's not lying in the laundry, she's lying on top of any surface she can climb onto. Chairs, tables, the tops of couches, beds, etc. She's like a cat or a bird. She perches on top of high surfaces.

Picnic table
Coffee table
Basket of blankets
The piano (???)
A chair outside.
What does your relationship with your pet mean to you?



I am so insanely protective of Scout, it's not even funny. I am completely attached to her. I don't tend to have many nightmares, but whenever I do, it's almost always about something happening to her. She makes me so happy every day. Whenever I get up in the morning, she's there to greet me with a wagging tail, and she's the last one I say goodnight to before bed. I don't know what I'd do without her.

Getting a tummy rub.
What are some of your favorite pastimes with your pet?


Cuddling while my brother and I read a Guinness World Records book.
She is the perfect cuddle buddy whenever we're reading or watching TV. She can usually be persuaded to lie right next to us if we have a blanket for her to curl up on. But she also has a couple times during the day where she has a ton of energy and wants me to chase her while she plays with a toy. And, for some reason none of us can figure out, she loves to lick my hands all over. Not anyone else's hands, just mine. She seriously treats them like her own personal ice cream cones. It's very bizarre.

She loves her toys.
What nicknames have you given your pet?



I don't think we have that many nicknames for her, but you can usually catch one of us saying these things to her throughout the day:


-"You're so cute"
-"Why are you so weird"
-"Hey, crazy"
-"What are you doing"
-"Hey, come back here, where are you going, we still need to dry off your paws!"
-"Hi, my doggie"
-"Puppyyyyy"


So that's Scout. Tell me all about your furry friends! Leave a comment and/or steal this tag for yourself.